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PRACTICAL PHILOSOPHY
THE JOURNAL OF THE SOCIETY FOR PHILOSOPHY IN PRACTICE
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Philosophical counselling in an educational setting: a personal account
Practical Philosophy March 1999 Volume 2.1 Pages 14-18
Susan Elinor Wright
I am a year tutor on the B Ed Hons which is one of the largest courses in
the School of Education at the University where I work. I am a personal tutor
for about twenty students. Both of these roles include a pastoral function.
I am a school experience tutor for a number of students, and this is also
a relationship which essentially involves supporting the student. One feature
common to all these roles, however, is that they can involve an assessment
or a disciplinary function as well as a supportive one.
I have had the basic training in Philosophical Counselling, and attended
follow up workshops. Since September I have been enrolled on a one-year Foundation
Course in Counselling Skills and Perspectives.
It should be recognised that all tutors in the University, whether or not
they have had any kind of training in counselling skills, sometimes have to
counsel students in an informal way, or direct them to where they can obtain
appropriate help and support. Those of us who have pastoral roles do this
rather more often. In fact, it was because I am in a job where I use counselling
skills, albeit untrained, that I was able to be accepted onto a Counselling
Skills course.
As far as the appropriateness goes of using philosophical skills with students,
I am speaking only from my own experience. My roles, as suggested above, have
in-built tensions. I frequently have to have quite difficult interviews with
individual students. This can be either because they want to tell me something
that it is very difficult for them to tell; or because I have to tell them
something which will be difficult or painful for them to hear. I might roughly
divide the kinds of interview into pastoral and disciplinary. (Some turn out
to be both.) An example of the former kind would be the case of a student
who needed to tell me about a whole series of traumatic events that made it
impossible to face doing a forthcoming Teaching Practice; of the latter, having
to tell a student exactly why a school would not allow any more visits, and
to work out a strategy through which it might be possible successfully to
complete the academic year.
To deal with such situations, I use the skills I have been learning in
my counselling course, and my philosophical skills. What I find interesting
is that it does not really seem to matter whether the focus is pastoral or
disciplinary: the co-joined counselling skills seem to work equally well.
My view of why they work equally well is that it is because in both situations
the techniques on the one hand give the students plenty of space to tell their
own stories and on the other hand enable them to clarify their own views of
the situation. Also, in both situations if necessary (see below), I give very
clear information about the Universitys requirements.
Sometimes, listening to a student is all that is needed. Recently a student
who had very obviously had to screw up courage to tell me something that it
was necessary for me to know thanked me for making it easy to tell. All I
had done was to show by my body language that I was giving my full attention
and that I was fully accepting what I was being told. No special skill was
needed, but my general Counselling training had both made it automatic for
me to be practising "active listening" and to be aware of what I was doing.
Often though, once a student has begun to tell me about a situation, I will
need to ask questions. Both kinds of training have taught me to ask open and
closed questions; questions which mirror or reflect back what I have already
been told in a way which enables the student to tell me more; to paraphrase
or summarise what has been said so far; and, where appropriate to challenge
what has been said.
Where there is any kind of disciplinary focus to an interview, I find it
particularly important to begin with an invitation to the student tell me
about what has been happening from her or his own point of view. I may need
to check this out later with others involved. When there are competing versions,
I may need to look for evidence which would help to establish what has happened.
But in order to have a possibility of a constructive outcome, I need to establish
trust between me and the student, and to me that means, for the time being,
taking what is being said to me on trust. I make clear to students
if there are any academic or professional requirements of the course that
they must meet. I also make clear any consequences of not meeting the requirements:
these could be failing a unit or units and having to resit; having to withdraw
temporarily from the course e.g. if there has been an illness or other difficult
situation; or in the worst case, a requirement to leave the course for good.
I put anything that has been required or agreed into writing and give a copy
to student - usually at the time, but sometimes, if a complex letter needs
to be written, a day or two later.
It is at the stage of asking questions that a philosophical focus sometimes
develops. Of course, all tutors ask questions all the time to help students,
(or colleagues, friends or partners) to clarify their thoughts and perhaps
to help them to see their way through a problem. The difference, for me, in
using the asking of questions as a philosophical counselling technique
is in the way that a specific training automatically comes into play. Typical
questions might be: Can you tell me what you mean by that? or
Do you think there is a conflict between this and what you said earlier?
This approach is particularly useful with students for the added reason
that it would be out of order and crossing boundaries for me to attempt any
emotionally based counselling with them. I do have to remember that whatever
I may have in the way of counselling skills, with students I am a tutor and
not a counsellor.
In my view, it is the automatically coming into play of specific skills,
from both my trainings, together with a conscious awareness of what one is
doing that makes me into a trained rather than an untrained person. The general
counselling skills training has made me a good deal more effective than I
was before. The philosophical skills add a valuable dimension of clarification.
Untrained, I may have done a great deal of good work with students in the
past. Indeed, I hope I have. Training enables me to reflect on my own
practice; to analyse strengths and weaknesses; to identify growing points;
to be clearer about when a situation is beyond my powers to deal with it;
to challenge my own practice. Finally, it enables me to be accountable
in ways I was not before, to the students, to myself and to anyone else who
might have an interest.
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